Love Hurts !
Love doesn't hurt, on the contrary, it is amazing! It is the absence of mutual love that hurts.
Love is a bond between two people that goes beyond logic and reason, one that overwhelms the mind and senses enough to do things that are aporiable. But when only one person out of these two have this emotion they might not realize that the other might not reciprocate and it is this naiveity that blinds them from the plain and simple truth that they might get hurt as if they were in a relationship that doesn't mean anything what so ever! When/if they do get hurt then they can't understand why this person, who apparently loved them, did what they did. The answer is quite simple: Either that other person doesn't reciprocate or they need reminding that what they are doing to those that they love the most is in fact hurting them! If they change their ways, at least enough to show that they desperately want to try, then they love you back. If they don't then they don't love you back.
Unfortunately the word love is used far too often or perhaps the bond associated with that word is perceived to be far stronger that it actually is.
Love is a bond between two people that goes beyond logic and reason, one that overwhelms the mind and senses enough to do things that are aporiable. But when only one person out of these two have this emotion they might not realize that the other might not reciprocate and it is this naiveity that blinds them from the plain and simple truth that they might get hurt as if they were in a relationship that doesn't mean anything what so ever! When/if they do get hurt then they can't understand why this person, who apparently loved them, did what they did. The answer is quite simple: Either that other person doesn't reciprocate or they need reminding that what they are doing to those that they love the most is in fact hurting them! If they change their ways, at least enough to show that they desperately want to try, then they love you back. If they don't then they don't love you back.
Unfortunately the word love is used far too often or perhaps the bond associated with that word is perceived to be far stronger that it actually is.
Labels: Love hurts....
posted by Mrs B at
11:58 PM
2 Comments:
hmmm.....confusing in between...but then....i can see the fact u hav written...and its quite right!!!cheers....rajiv
hey i guess you do have a point there...what strikes me real strong is the fact that love has been mutilated with personalised opinions...i remember this time, when i was madly and insanely infatuated by this girl in school...the only connection between us being the glances we shared on our trip to school...it felt like love spoke with the eyes and the soul doing the talking...but one fine day like the usual philosophy that parents dish out- my dad in a rather sombre mood anounced...."son what you now see as love is nothing but 'puppy love'...you will realize some day that true love is something even greater and pure...unfortunately only few are blessed with it in totality "
i will never be able to judge what he truly meant but i guess he had some element of truth in it....
....life sure will reveal love's secret some day
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